Dad Attire: Easy Tips for What to Wear at a Wedding
Being a dad at a wedding can feel high‑pressure. You want to look sharp, respect the couple’s style, and still feel comfortable. The good news is you don’t need a fashion degree. Follow these simple steps and you’ll walk into the ceremony looking confident.
Choosing the Right Outfit
First, check the invitation. If it says “black tie,” go for a classic tuxedo with a black bow tie. For “formal” or “black‑tie optional,” a dark suit (navy, charcoal or black) works fine. When the invite says “semi‑formal” or “cocktail,” a lighter suit in gray or blue is safe.
Pick a shirt that matches the suit’s tone. White is the easiest choice – it always looks clean. If you want a bit of personality, a light blue shirt can add a subtle pop without clashing.
Don’t forget the tie. For dark suits, a deep red, navy, or patterned tie adds interest. If the wedding is in summer, a softer pastel or linen tie can keep the look breezy.
Shoes should be polished leather. Black Oxfords pair well with darker suits, while brown brogues look great with navy or gray. Make sure the shoes are broken in – sore feet ruin any outfit.
Tips for Comfort and Style
Fit matters more than brand. A well‑tailored jacket that hugs the shoulders and falls at the waist looks neat. If you’re not sure about tailoring, bring the suit to a local tailor for minor adjustments; it’s cheap and makes a big difference.
Consider the venue. Outdoor weddings call for breathable fabrics like cotton or lightweight wool. For a church ceremony, a more traditional look with a vest can add a classic touch.Accessories should be minimal. A nice watch, a pocket square that matches the tie, and a simple belt keep the look polished. Avoid loud belts or flashy cufflinks unless the couple specifically wants a quirky vibe.
Don’t forget grooming. A fresh haircut, trimmed facial hair and a light shave keep the overall appearance tidy. A quick check of the suit for lint or loose threads before you leave the house can save embarrassment.
If you’re unsure, ask the bride or groom what they envision. Most couples appreciate dads who want to fit in their vision, and they’ll gladly give guidance on colors or level of formality.
Finally, enjoy the day. The outfit is just a part of the celebration. When you feel good in what you’re wearing, you’ll be more relaxed and able to focus on the happy moments.
