Money Gift Ideas for Your Son’s Wedding

When your son asks you to chip in for his wedding, cash is often the easiest and most useful option. But figuring out the right amount and how to give it can feel tricky. Below you’ll find straight‑forward advice on budgeting, etiquette, and fun ways to hand over the money so it feels personal, not just a bundle of notes.

How Much Should You Give?

The first question most parents ask is, "How much is appropriate?" There’s no strict rule, but a good starting point is to consider three factors: your budget, the overall wedding cost, and any other contributions you’re making (like covering the rehearsal dinner or a portion of the venue). If you can comfortably afford it, many families aim for $200‑$500 per parent. If you’re covering a larger portion of the ceremony, you might go higher, even $1,000. The key is to give an amount that feels comfortable for you, not to match anyone else’s contribution.

Also think about the couple’s financial situation. If they’re planning a modest wedding, a smaller cash gift can make a big difference. If they’ve already saved a lot, a modest amount is still appreciated because it shows your support without breaking the bank.

Creative Ways to Present Cash

Handing over a stack of bills can feel impersonal, so consider these simple ideas to make it special:

• Personalized envelope: Use a nice envelope with the couple’s names and wedding date printed on it. Add a short note like, "Wishing you a lifetime of love and adventure."
• Money bouquet: Fold bills into little roses or daisies and arrange them in a small vase. It looks like a floral gift but carries cash.
• Gift box with a theme: If the wedding has a rustic vibe, place the cash in a wooden box with a handwritten card. For a beach theme, a small seashell jar works well.
• Digital transfer: If the couple prefers online banking, send the money electronically with a heartfelt message. You can still print a card for a physical touch.

Whatever method you choose, keep the presentation tidy and thoughtful. A short, sincere note goes a long way.

Finally, remember that the purpose of a money gift is to ease the couple’s financial load. Whether you give $100 or $1,000, the gesture shows you’re there to support their new life together. Pair your gift with a warm hug, a toast at the reception, or a quick call after the big day – those moments often mean more than the amount itself.

So, set a budget that feels right for you, pick a presentation that matches the wedding style, and add a personal note. Your son and his partner will appreciate the thought and the help as they start their married life.