Son's Wedding: Practical Tips for Parents and Grooms

Planning a wedding for your son can feel like a roller‑coaster—exciting, a little stressful, and full of decisions you never imagined. You want the day to be perfect without breaking the bank or stepping on any etiquette toes. Below you’ll find straightforward advice on budgeting, gifts, and the little customs that make a big difference.

Setting a Realistic Budget

Start by sitting down with your son (and his partner, if possible) and marking a ceiling you’re both comfortable with. A common rule is to allocate about 40% of the total budget to the venue, 20% to catering, and the rest to attire, photography, and décor. If you’re aiming for a modest celebration, look for off‑peak dates or local venues that offer packages.

Don’t forget hidden costs: taxes, service fees, and tips for vendors. A quick spreadsheet can help you track each line item and avoid unpleasant surprises. When you see where every pound goes, you’ll feel more in control and can re‑allocate funds to the things that matter most, like a beautiful veil from our boutique.

Gift Ideas Your Son Will Actually Use

One of the toughest questions families ask is, “How much money should we give our son on his wedding day?” The answer depends on your finances and local customs, but a good starting point is to consider the average wedding gift in your area and add a personal touch. Cash gifts are still the most flexible, letting the couple decide where to spend it.

If you prefer a tangible present, think about items that will grow with them: a high‑quality set of kitchen knives, a contribution toward their honeymoon, or a piece of artwork for their new home. For something truly special, a bespoke wedding veil or accessory from Cotswold Wedding Veils Boutique adds a personal flair and ties into the ceremony’s style.

When it comes to etiquette, there’s no hard rule on the exact amount, but most people aim for a figure that reflects their relationship and financial comfort. The key is to give from the heart, not to match a perceived standard.

Beyond money, consider writing a heartfelt letter or sharing a family recipe. Those gestures often become cherished memories more than any monetary gift.

Finally, remember that your involvement should support the couple’s vision, not dictate it. Offer help, but let them make the final calls on colors, themes, and vendors. A supportive attitude goes a long way toward a smooth planning process.

With these budgeting and gifting basics in place, you’ll feel more confident navigating the details. Keep communication open, stay organized, and enjoy watching your son’s wedding day unfold—because the best part is seeing your family celebrate love together.