Wedding Superstitions: What They Are and How to Handle Them
Planning a wedding can feel like a roller‑coaster, and every family throws in a few old‑fashioned beliefs. Some couples love the stories, others just want to get on with the day. Below is a quick rundown of the most talked‑about wedding superstitions and simple ways to decide what to keep or ditch.
Old‑Fashioned Beliefs You Might Have Heard
Spill the salt, throw it over your left shoulder. This one started as a way to ward off bad luck after a kitchen accident. For a wedding, many guests sprinkle a pinch on the table before the ceremony. If you’re not into it, just thank them and keep the salt where it belongs – in the shaker.
Don’t wear anything white before the wedding. Some say wearing white before the big day invites bad luck. The rule came from a time when a white dress signaled purity. Today, a white dress for a rehearsal dinner or a pre‑wedding brunch is perfectly fine if you like it.
The bride must never see the wedding dress before the ceremony. The story goes back to a tragic accident where a bride saw a stain and panicked. Modern brides often try the dress weeks ahead to be sure of the fit, so skip the drama and try it early.
Walking under a ladder or breaking a mirror brings misfortune. Both are general bad‑luck signs, not wedding‑specific. If a ladder is in the venue, just move it – no need to rearrange the whole floor plan.
Seeing a robin before the ceremony means good luck. In some cultures the robin is a symbol of new beginnings. If you spot one, enjoy the moment; if not, you’re still fine – the day will go well without a bird.
How to Deal With Superstitions Today
First, talk with your family. Ask why a belief matters to them; a short chat can turn a tense “no‑blue‑dress” rule into a shared story you can keep or gently set aside.
Second, decide what feels right for you. If a superstition adds a fun detail – like tossing rice for prosperity – keep it. If it creates stress – like hiding the dress – skip it. Your wedding should reflect your style, not just old rules.
Third, add a modern twist. Replace broken‑mirror worries with a photo booth that captures happy faces. Replace salt‑spilling by serving a decorative salt bar for guests who want to join in.
Finally, keep the focus on the ceremony itself. Most superstitions are harmless, but they can become a distraction if you let them. A clear plan and a calm attitude will keep things on track.
Whether you embrace a few quirks or ignore them altogether, remember that the most important part of the day is the promise you’re making. If you need a veil that feels both traditional and personal, our boutique in the Cotswolds offers custom designs that respect heritage without feeling outdated. Happy planning!
